The Spiritual Side of Suicide

A dark and stormy night“I’ve been spiraling for years and I tried to hang myself in my hotel last night.”

That is the title of a message posted on Reddit two weeks ago by a professionally successful, financially secure 45-year-old man in a loving marriage. Here is a link to the original post.

This gentleman is not alone in his suffering.

In its March 2025 report on suicide, the World Health Organization estimates that approximately 720,000 people worldwide die from suicide each year. The WHO further states that suicide is the third cause of death among 15- to 29-year-olds. In the United States, the Minnesota Department of Health states that among suicides, males comprise 80% of the deaths. Statistically, far more men commit suicide than women. According to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, the number one method of suicide is the use of a firearm. The second most common method is suffocation by hanging.

Suicide is a tragic and serious global crisis. And for millions of people, suicide ideation—thinking about committing suicide—is a profound personal mental health crisis.

But suicide is not just a secular mental health crisis. It’s a spiritual health crisis. What drives people to suicide? How does it relate to our spiritual life and health? Can God and spirit give us any help in facing this scourge on human life? In this post we examine these questions, and more.

If you, or someone you know, is thinking about committing suicide, please reach out for help. There are people who love you and care about you, and are ready to help and support you through this difficult time. There are also psychiatrists and counselors who stand ready to provide professional help and guidance. Don’t go it alone. Get the help you need before it’s too late.

For more on the spiritual side of suicide, please click here to read on.

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The Four Kinds of Love that Drive Human Life

There’s a common notion these days that underneath it all, everyone is well-intentioned and good. On the other hand, some cynics believe that everyone is selfish, even if they may outwardly appear to be altruistic. Some people even think it would be a good thing for everyone to put self-interest first. (I see you, Objectivists!)

But human life, and the human psyche, is more complex than that.

Emanuel Swedenborg (1688–1772) identified four types of love that drive human life. Here they are in the traditional Christian and biblical language:

  1. The Four Kinds of LoveLove of the Lord
  2. Love of the neighbor
  3. Love of the world
  4. Love of self

We’ll put them in more contemporary language, and describe each one more fully, in a moment.

No two people have the exact same love driving them. These are the four general categories of love, but they are differentiated into as many different specific kinds of love as there are people. No two people are ever the same, and no two people are ever motivated by exactly the same love.

What we love most of all determines everything about our life and character. This is what Swedenborg calls our “ruling love” or “primary love,” and it is our true inner self. Everything else about us arranges itself around the primary, central love that drives us.

Once we understand the four different kinds of love, and the concept of a person’s ruling love, human society and the people around us start to make a lot more sense.

Let’s take a closer look.

For more on our four primary motivators, please click here to read on.

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Mats “Ibelin” Steen: Heaven in a Video Game

The Remarkable Life of Ibelin - Movie PosterOn November 18, 2014, Mats “Ibelin” Steen ceased his daily thirty-minute run through the villages, fields, forests, hills, and valleys of a virtual world. From then on, he could do his daily run through the villages, fields, forests, hills, and valleys of the spiritual world, in his spiritual body.

His physical body had long since ceased any running in this earthly world, taken down by the Duchenne muscular dystrophy that he had had from birth, and that took his life at the age of twenty-five.

His parents, Robert and Trude Steen, grieved their firstborn son’s death. They were especially devastated that he had never been able to experience friendship and love, and make a difference in other people’s lives. He had been confined to a wheelchair throughout his teenage and adult years. He increasingly avoided outdoor activities and social events. They were sad to see that he spent most of his time alone at his computer, playing video games.

It was only after their son’s death that they learned, to their complete surprise and amazement, that Mats had indeed experienced all those things—and so much more!

Because that’s when the messages started pouring in from his friends.

For more on video games and heaven, please click here to read on.

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A Critical Question

Hagar and the angelThe angel of the Lord said to Hagar: “You are now with child, and you will have a son. You shall name him Ishmael, for the Lord has heard of your misery. He will be a wild donkey of a man; his hand will be against everyone and everyone’s hand against him, and he will live in hostility towards all his brothers.” (Genesis 16:11–12)

What’s a future Patriarch to do? Eighty-five years old, his wife long past childbearing age, and no children to serve as his heirs! You can read the whole story in Genesis 16.

Abram’s wife Sarai had an idea: Hagar, her female slave, was still young. She could bear children in Sarai’s place. These children would be considered Sarai’s children, so that Sarai could build a family through Hagar.

Abram had no better idea, so he consented to his wife’s plan, slept with Hagar, and she became pregnant. In those days, a woman’s worth was measured largely by the sons she bore for her husband. So as soon as she had conceived and was pregnant, Hagar, though she was a slave, began to look down upon Sarai, her mistress.

This was unbearable to Sarai. She already bore the shame of being childless. She could not brook the further shame of being held in contempt by her own slave woman. She promptly blamed Abram for her troubles—even though the whole plan was hers in the first place.

For more on Abram and Ishmael, please click here to read on.

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The Ark of the Covenant

The Ark and the Mercy Seat

Charlton Heston as Moses in the epic 1956 Cecil B. DeMille film, The Ten CommandmentsWhat do the Ten Commandments, psychics, the CIA, and social media have in common?

We’re glad you asked!

It is the Ark of the Covenant, which is currently trending in the podcasting and social media realms.

Some content creators recently discovered declassified U.S. Central Intelligence Agency (CIA) documents from the 1980s about a U.S. Army program known as the Stargate Project. This project was a foray by the Army into harnessing psychic powers for (among other things) locating objects. And one of the objects they sought was the biblical Ark of the Covenant.

What exactly is the Ark of the Covenant?

For more on the Ark of the Covenant, please click here to read on.

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Spiritual Insights Announcements, March 2025

Our YouTube channel is back!

After eight years of radio silence, we are reviving our YouTube channel. Our first new video offers three announcements about Spiritual Insights for Everyday Life:

Here is the short version:

  1. We have moved from Africa to South America.
  2. We are re-starting our YouTube channel!
  3. We have set up a Patreon so that you can support our work.

Over time, we expect to improve the quality of our videos. But you have to start somewhere!

Though the articles here on the website can go into greater depth, we hope you’ll enjoy brief presentations in video format of many of the new posts here. Our goal is to return to our former practice of putting up at least one new post per week, usually on Sunday. Where appropriate, we’ll also put up a YouTube version.

See you next Sunday!

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Immanuel Kant’s Dreams of a Spirit-Seer

This post will be a little different from most of the articles we publish here on Spiritual Insights for Everyday Life. It is the final paper I wrote for my high school senior philosophy class when I was seventeen years old. I’ve updated the punctuation a bit and fixed a few typos, but otherwise it’s exactly what I turned in to my philosophy teacher almost five decades ago.

Though I haven’t changed anything substantive in the paper, one point does require correction. Swedenborg is often credited by his followers with proposing the nebular hypothesis of the formation of the solar system decades before either Immanuel Kant or Pierre-Simon Laplace. However, though some elements of Swedenborg’s theory may have made their way into the development of the nebular hypothesis, in Swedenborg’s system, published in 1734 during his earlier scientific period, all the bodies in the solar system spin out from the central sun. However, in the nebular hypothesis, the solar system condenses from a vast cloud of dust and gas. Planets, asteroids, and so on were never part of the sun (specifically, originating in a crust that built up around the sun) as Swedenborg theorized.

I should also mention that this paper was written before gender-inclusive language became the academic standard.

If this article isn’t your cup of tea, feel free to skip it. However, for some readers it might still be of interest all these years later. First, it shows one way in which Swedenborg’s thought made its way into the broader currents of present-day human ideas through the famous and influential philosopher Immanuel Kant. Second, much of Kant’s description, summarized in the paper, of how spirit and matter interact comes directly from Swedenborg’s Arcana Coelestia (Secrets of Heaven), and may therefore be fruitful for readers of this blog.

Please enjoy (or not!) this production of my youth.

For more on Kant and Swedenborg, please click here to read on.

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Spiritual Prepping

Survivalists, aka “preppers,” are people who prepare themselves in various ways in case of a supply chain interruption, natural disaster, or the breakdown of the current economic and social order.

Recently a survivalist whose YouTube channel is called “City Prepping” waxed philosophical:

It’s all about building foundations for your future self and your future life, he says. His parting line:

Remember: your future depends on what you do today.

That’s sage advice, not only in preparing for future natural disasters, but in preparing for spiritual disasters as well.

For more on spiritual prepping, please click here to read on.

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Is Money Evil?

Silver drachma (reproduction)There’s a popular saying from the Bible: “Money is the root of all evil.”

There’s only one problem: That’s not what the Bible says.

Here’s what the Bible does say, in the traditional King James Version:

For the love of money is the root of all evil. (1 Timothy 6:10)

According to the Bible, it’s not money, but the love of money that is the root of all evil. And even that is not exactly what the original Greek says. We’ll take a closer look at this verse and its context in a minute.

Quite a few of Jesus’ parables were about money.

Or were they?

Really, they are about what is of true value not just materially, but spiritually. Because value is the true meaning of money.

Is money evil? No. But our love for it and our use of it does show whether our own heart is good or evil.

For more on money and value, please click here to read on.

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What are “Temptations”? How Bad Do They Get?

Right after Jesus was baptized, he went out into the desert, fasted for forty days, and was tempted by the Devil (Matthew 4:1–11; Mark 1:9–13; Luke 4:1–13). In these temptations, the Devil tried to get Jesus to act wrongly. It was after this that Jesus began his public ministry.

During his public ministry, which lasted for about three years, Jesus was continually challenged and tested by the religious authorities of the day. They attempted to trip him up intellectually, accusing him of being a false teacher.

Just before his work here on earth was finished, Jesus went through a far more severe testing of his soul in the garden of Gethsemane (Matthew 26:36–46; Mark 14:32–42; Luke 22:39–46). This temptation brought him to the point of despair. On the Cross, he cried out, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Matthew 27:46; Mark 15:34).

The Agony in the Garden, by William Blake (1757-1827)

The Agony in the Garden, by William Blake (1757–1827)

These three kinds of temptations that the Lord went through during his life on earth correspond to the three basic parts of us as human beings, popularly known as hands, head, and heart. There are:

  1. Temptations in behavior
  2. Temptations in the realm of ideas
  3. Temptations of the heart and soul

What are these temptations? How do we experience them in our life? What are they leading to?

For more on temptation, please click here to read on.

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