Strip Search Prank Calls, Domestic Violence: Evil Loves Deception

Warning: This article discusses fictional portrayals and real incidents of sexual assault, abusive relationships, and domestic violence.

The movie "Compliance," with Dreama Walker

The movie “Compliance,” with Dreama Walker

Last week Annette and I watched the movie “Compliance,” a controversial and disturbing 2012 American thriller written and directed by Craig Zobel.

The movie is set in a small-town fast food restaurant on a busy Friday evening. Things are not going well for manager Sandra Fromme (played by Ann Dowd). And they are about to get a whole lot worse.

Sandra receives a phone call from an “Officer Daniels” (Pat Healy). He tells her that the police have received a verified complaint that one of her employees stole some money from a customer’s purse that day. The employee is described as a blonde female approximately nineteen years old.

Sandra: “Becky?”

Officer Daniels: “Becky. Yeah, we have her name as Rebecca. That’s right, Becky.”

The voice on the phone exudes calm authority.

For more on the marriage of convenience between evil and deception, please click here to read on.

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Posted in Pain and Suffering, Popular Culture

What does Jesus Mean when He Says we Must be Born Again?

How Can I Be Reborn?

“No one can see the kingdom of God without being born again.”

What the heck does that mean? People who ask you, “Have you been born again?” think that they’ve got it all figured out . . . and that you probably don’t. But there’s no need to argue with them.

When Jesus spoke these words about being born again, he followed them up by talking about being “born of the spirit.” He was talking about spiritual rebirth.

What does that mean?

It means becoming a new person.

We all have our faults and flaws. Some of them are obvious, some are hidden. When we engage in them knowingly and intentionally, they are called “sins.” The only way we can become reborn as a new person is to stop engaging in wrong and hurtful desires, thoughts, and actions, and start living from new and better motives and views of life.

This requires a lifelong process of learning, self-examination, prayer, and a conscious effort to put our old self off and our new self on. Rebirth may start with the conversion experience that some people call being “born again,” but it then continues for the rest of our life.

For a step-by-step guide to becoming reborn as a new person, please click here to read on.

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Posted in Spiritual Growth, The Bible Re-Viewed

Video Games, Virtual Reality, and Spiritual Reality

Palestinian children playing computer games

Palestinian children playing computer games

Video games are in the news again in the wake of the Newtown, Connecticut school shootings. As explored in a recent piece on WBUR radio titled, “My Son, The Dragon Slayer: The Risks And Rewards Of Growing Up Gaming,” the debate over positive vs. negative effects of video games on children and adults rages on.

As I said in my previous two-part article, “What Does the Bible Say about Video Games? Part 1 and Part 2,  I believe there is more depth to video gaming than meets the eye.

In fact, I’m going to put it right out there:

I believe that video games are a reflection of spiritual reality.

For more on video games and spiritual reality, please click here to read on.

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Posted in Sports and Recreation

Heaven and Hell, by Emanuel Swedenborg

Do you wonder what happens after we die?

Who doesn’t!?

Here is the most extensive eyewitness account of the spiritual world ever published:

Heaven and Hell
By Emanuel Swedenborg

Heaven and Hell was originally published in Latin in 1758. I recommend the New Century Edition linked here for the most readable and accurate modern translation. It is also available in a deluxe hardcover edition.

For further description and review, please click here to read on.

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Posted in Books and Literature, The Afterlife

Where is the Proof of the Afterlife?

For a video reading of this article on YouTube, click here.

In a comment on my recent article, “If God is Love, Why all the Pain and Suffering?” a reader named Mike wrote:

All good and fine but where is the proof there is life after we die? You contend that there is suffering in this material world but our spirit will go on to another world after this one. Where is the proof? Not enough to just believe blindly (like communism or some other ism).

Great question! Let’s talk about it.

First, as you have gathered from my earlier article, I believe that the afterlife is not in this physical world after some future Last Judgment, as some people think. Instead, I believe it is in a spiritual world that is entirely distinct from the physical world.

Obviously, for that to be true there would have to be a spiritual world. So let’s broaden the question:

Where is the proof that the spiritual world exists?

Now, I assume that by “proof” you mean conclusive evidence by which one person could demonstrate to another person that the spiritual world definitely exists. Is that a reasonable assumption?

If so, then the answer is:

There is no proof that the spiritual world exists.

In fact, God has specifically designed the universe and the human mind so that it is impossible for one person to prove to another person that the spiritual world exists. This is to protect the very same freedom that I talked about in the “Pain and Suffering” article.

But here’s the real kicker:

There is also no proof that the material world exists.

For more on proof and reality, please click here to read on.

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Posted in The Afterlife

If God is Love, Why all the Pain and Suffering?

How could a loving God allow so much evil?

All it takes is a glance at the top stories in the daily news to show us that there is an awful lot of death, destruction, pain, and suffering in our world. Perhaps God is not paying attention. Perhaps God is punishing us for our sins. Either way, it doesn’t make God look all that good.

However, much of the evil in human life is self-inflicted. Through greed, desire for power, or simply a focus on our own pleasure and well-being, we bring most of the evils in our world down upon ourselves. Unfortunately, many innocent people suffer in the process.

Why does God allow it? And is God doing anything about it?

God’s tolerance of evil has to do with preserving human freedom, and not interfering with the results of our freely made choices. God wants human beings who can choose for themselves how to live, and whether to return God’s love.

As for whether God is doing anything about it, a better question might be whether we are doing anything about it. God is continually urging us to express active love and compassion for our fellow human beings. Are we listening?

For more on God’s love in the face of human pain and suffering, please click here to read on.

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Posted in All About God, Pain and Suffering

Lance Armstrong Takes On the World

Rumor has it that in an upcoming interview with Oprah Winfrey, Lance Armstrong will make a “limited confession” to using performance-enhancing drugs during the time period when he won the prestigious Tour de France bicycle race for seven straight years from 1999 to 2005.

Lance Armstrong relaxes at his home in Austin, Texas, with his Seven Tour de France Jerseys

Lance Armstrong with his Seven Tour de France Jerseys

If so, this would be a major about-face for Armstrong, who for years has actively and vociferously denied charges of using performance-enhancing drugs. He has even gone so far as to aggressively pursue both defensive and offensive legal action against individuals, publications, and organizations that have publicly charged him with doping.

However, the tide began turning against him when in June 2012 the United States Anti-Doping Agency (USADA) formally accused Armstrong of doping. In August 2012 USADA released a damning 202 page report providing extensive eyewitness and documentary evidence of Armstrong’s doping. As a result of the charges and the supporting evidence, Armstrong was stripped of his seven Tour de France titles, and given a lifetime ban from participating in cycling competitions or any other sport over which USADA has jurisdiction.

Armstrong predictably denied all charges, but opted not to appeal the decision. From then until now, he has steadfastly maintained his innocence.

For more on Lance Armstrong’s struggle against the world, please click here to read on.

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Posted in Spiritual Growth, Sports and Recreation

Real Marriage vs. Legal Marriage

Bob and Norma Clark celebrate their wedding 48 years later

Bob and Norma Clark

Bob and Norma Clark were married on August 29, 1964.

Or were they?

Yes, they had a beautiful wedding in a church, complete with all the trimmings.

But no, their marriage never got recorded with the County Clerk in San Mateo County, California, where their wedding took place.

However, they didn’t discover that until forty-eight years later. It turns out that they had never been legally married.

So were they married or not?

That depends on your definition of marriage.

For more on real marriage vs. legal marriage, please click here to read on.

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Posted in Current Events, Sex Marriage Relationships

Nations are People, My Friend!

On December 31, 2012, North Korea’s leader, Kim Jong Un, gave a New Year’s speech, vowing that his country would open up a new phase and make a radical turn-around in its economy during the coming year. He also made overtures of peace toward South Korea.

Skeptical Western analysts responded, “We’ve heard all of this before.” And in fact, the same speech included plans to upgrade North Korea’s military capabilities against all comers.

Embedded in much of the reportage on the event is a fascinating comment by  John Delury, an Assistant Professor of International Studies at Yonsei University in Seoul, South Korea. Speaking of the relationship between South Korea and North Korea in a December 18 piece for CNN World Delury wrote, “It is up to the stronger power [South Korea] to unclench its fist first, so that the leader of the weaker state [North Korea] can outstretch his hand.”

Does South Korea have a fist?

Can North Korea stretch out a hand?

It’s as if nations were people!

Are nations people? Please click here to read on.

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Posted in Current Events, Money and Business

New Year’s Resolutions: Look before you Limp

New Year’s resolutions: they’re easy to make, and easy to break.

In fact, according to a 2007 study by professor and psychologist Richard Wiseman, 88% of the people who make New Year’s resolutions fail to achieve their goal. (Click here for his latest blog post on “How to Keep your New Year’s Resolution.”)

It’s not too late to revise your resolutions in case you’re setting yourself up for failure! Let’s look Biblically at one factor in making your New Year’s resolutions successful: Considering them carefully to make sure they are achievable.

In speaking of the costs of becoming one of his disciples, Jesus gave these two examples:

If one of you wanted to build a tower, wouldn’t you first sit down and calculate the cost, to determine whether you have enough money to complete it? Otherwise, when you had laid the foundation but couldn’t finish the tower, all who see it might start laughing at you. They will say, “Here’s the person who began construction and couldn’t complete it!”

Or what king would go to war against another king without first sitting down to consider whether his ten thousand soldiers could go up against the twenty thousand coming against him? And if he didn’t think he could win, he would send a delegation to discuss terms of peace while his enemy was still a long way off. (Luke 14:28–32)

Isn’t it a good idea to sit down and calculate the “cost” of each resolution you might make, and consider whether you can realistically achieve it?

After all, if you don’t achieve it, you’ll feel defeated, and it will actually make it harder to change your life for the better in the future, as you limp along in life berating yourself for your weakness, lack of willpower, and so on. It’s better not to make any resolution at all than to make a resolution and fail.

However, it’s even better to make an achievable resolution, and succeed!

For more on calculating the cost of your resolutions, please click here to read on.

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