What are the Roles of Men and Women toward Each Other and in Society?

Man + Woman = Confusion?

There are few issues so hotly debated in today’s society as the roles of men and women toward each other and in society. The arguments range all the way from those who maintain that man is created to rule and woman to serve, to those who maintain that there are no significant differences between men and women besides the physical differences required for human reproduction. In other words, we humans are mightily confused about the roles of women and men!

Traditionalists in the largely Christian parts of the world often point to the Bible in support of their view that man is meant to be in charge and woman is meant to serve man. But a look at how men and women were first created tells a slightly different story!

In many ways, the roles of men and women have not changed all that much over the centuries. Yet today, in this era of change, one thing is new: both women and men have far more choice as to what roles they will play and what they will devote their lives to. The grip of church and state on our personal lives has loosened—and this opens up new possibilities for how men and women will relate to one another, and how we will each contribute to society.

For more on this confusing subject, please click here to read on.

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Posted in The Bible Re-Viewed

Curses or Consequences: Did God Really Curse Adam and Eve?

There’s an idea afoot that God cursed Adam and Eve because they disobeyed him.

But that’s not what the Bible says.

The whole story unfolds in Genesis chapter 3.

God had said to Adam, “You may freely eat of every tree in the garden; but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you may not eat, for on the day that you eat of it you will certainly die.” (Genesis 2:16–17).

Eve Tempted by the Serpent, by William Blake

Eve Tempted by the Serpent, by William Blake

However, after God created Eve from one of Adam’s ribs, and the two of them became husband and wife, that crafty old serpent (really, just a glorified snake) got busy.

That’s where we pick up the story in Genesis 3.

Though Adam was in the garden with Eve, the serpent ignored him completely. Instead, he went to work on Eve: “Did God really say, ‘You may not eat from any tree in the garden’?”

Notice the not-so-subtle twisting of God’s words. God had really said, “You may freely eat of every tree in the garden” . . . except one. The serpent ignored that completely, and focused Eve’s attention on that one tree as if it were the only tree in the garden.

Now, some people have complained that God told Adam, not Eve, not to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Yes, that’s true. But clearly Adam had told his wife: Eve was well aware of God’s prohibition. She replied to the serpent, “We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden; but of the fruit of the tree that is in the middle of the garden, God has said, ‘You may not eat of it, nor may you touch it, or you will die” (Genesis 3:2–3). (Ahem! There’s a little trick here about which tree is in the middle of the garden!)

“You will certainly not die,” the serpent said, “for God knows that on the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

And in fact, that tree did look mighty tempting to Eve. She ate some of its fruit. (The Bible says nothing about an apple!) Then she gave some to her husband, and he ate it too.

Just as the serpent said, their eyes were opened . . . and they realized with horror that they were naked.

Hold on! That’s not quite what the serpent advertised!

For more on serpents, curses, and consequences, please click here to read on.

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Strip Search Prank Calls, Domestic Violence: Evil Loves Deception

Warning: This article discusses fictional portrayals and real incidents of sexual assault, abusive relationships, and domestic violence.

The movie "Compliance," with Dreama Walker

The movie “Compliance,” with Dreama Walker

Last week Annette and I watched the movie “Compliance,” a controversial and disturbing 2012 American thriller written and directed by Craig Zobel.

The movie is set in a small-town fast food restaurant on a busy Friday evening. Things are not going well for manager Sandra Fromme (played by Ann Dowd). And they are about to get a whole lot worse.

Sandra receives a phone call from an “Officer Daniels” (Pat Healy). He tells her that the police have received a verified complaint that one of her employees stole some money from a customer’s purse that day. The employee is described as a blonde female approximately nineteen years old.

Sandra: “Becky?”

Officer Daniels: “Becky. Yeah, we have her name as Rebecca. That’s right, Becky.”

The voice on the phone exudes calm authority.

For more on the marriage of convenience between evil and deception, please click here to read on.

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Posted in Pain and Suffering, Popular Culture

What does Jesus Mean when He Says we Must be Born Again?

How Can I Be Reborn?

“No one can see the kingdom of God without being born again.”

What the heck does that mean? People who ask you, “Have you been born again?” think that they’ve got it all figured out . . . and that you probably don’t. But there’s no need to argue with them.

When Jesus spoke these words about being born again, he followed them up by talking about being “born of the spirit.” He was talking about spiritual rebirth.

What does that mean?

It means becoming a new person.

We all have our faults and flaws. Some of them are obvious, some are hidden. When we engage in them knowingly and intentionally, they are called “sins.” The only way we can become reborn as a new person is to stop engaging in wrong and hurtful desires, thoughts, and actions, and start living from new and better motives and views of life.

This requires a lifelong process of learning, self-examination, prayer, and a conscious effort to put our old self off and our new self on. Rebirth may start with the conversion experience that some people call being “born again,” but it then continues for the rest of our life.

For a step-by-step guide to becoming reborn as a new person, please click here to read on.

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Video Games, Virtual Reality, and Spiritual Reality

Palestinian children playing computer games

Palestinian children playing computer games

Video games are in the news again in the wake of the Newtown, Connecticut school shootings. As explored in a recent piece on WBUR radio titled, “My Son, The Dragon Slayer: The Risks And Rewards Of Growing Up Gaming,” the debate over positive vs. negative effects of video games on children and adults rages on.

As I said in my previous two-part article, “What Does the Bible Say about Video Games? Part 1 and Part 2,  I believe there is more depth to video gaming than meets the eye.

In fact, I’m going to put it right out there:

I believe that video games are a reflection of spiritual reality.

For more on video games and spiritual reality, please click here to read on.

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Heaven and Hell, by Emanuel Swedenborg

Do you wonder what happens after we die?

Who doesn’t!?

Here is the most extensive eyewitness account of the spiritual world ever published:

Heaven and Hell
By Emanuel Swedenborg

Heaven and Hell was originally published in Latin in 1758. I recommend the New Century Edition linked here for the most readable and accurate modern translation. It is also available in a deluxe hardcover edition.

For further description and review, please click here to read on.

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Posted in Books and Literature, The Afterlife

Where is the Proof of the Afterlife?

For a video reading of this article on YouTube, click here.

In a comment on my recent article, “If God is Love, Why all the Pain and Suffering?” a reader named Mike wrote:

All good and fine but where is the proof there is life after we die? You contend that there is suffering in this material world but our spirit will go on to another world after this one. Where is the proof? Not enough to just believe blindly (like communism or some other ism).

Great question! Let’s talk about it.

First, as you have gathered from my earlier article, I believe that the afterlife is not in this physical world after some future Last Judgment, as some people think. Instead, I believe it is in a spiritual world that is entirely distinct from the physical world.

Obviously, for that to be true there would have to be a spiritual world. So let’s broaden the question:

Where is the proof that the spiritual world exists?

Now, I assume that by “proof” you mean conclusive evidence by which one person could demonstrate to another person that the spiritual world definitely exists. Is that a reasonable assumption?

If so, then the answer is:

There is no proof that the spiritual world exists.

In fact, God has specifically designed the universe and the human mind so that it is impossible for one person to prove to another person that the spiritual world exists. This is to protect the very same freedom that I talked about in the “Pain and Suffering” article.

But here’s the real kicker:

There is also no proof that the material world exists.

For more on proof and reality, please click here to read on.

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If God is Love, Why all the Pain and Suffering?

How could a loving God allow so much evil?

All it takes is a glance at the top stories in the daily news to show us that there is an awful lot of death, destruction, pain, and suffering in our world. Perhaps God is not paying attention. Perhaps God is punishing us for our sins. Either way, it doesn’t make God look all that good.

However, much of the evil in human life is self-inflicted. Through greed, desire for power, or simply a focus on our own pleasure and well-being, we bring most of the evils in our world down upon ourselves. Unfortunately, many innocent people suffer in the process.

Why does God allow it? And is God doing anything about it?

God’s tolerance of evil has to do with preserving human freedom, and not interfering with the results of our freely made choices. God wants human beings who can choose for themselves how to live, and whether to return God’s love.

As for whether God is doing anything about it, a better question might be whether we are doing anything about it. God is continually urging us to express active love and compassion for our fellow human beings. Are we listening?

For more on God’s love in the face of human pain and suffering, please click here to read on.

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Lance Armstrong Takes On the World

Rumor has it that in an upcoming interview with Oprah Winfrey, Lance Armstrong will make a “limited confession” to using performance-enhancing drugs during the time period when he won the prestigious Tour de France bicycle race for seven straight years from 1999 to 2005.

Lance Armstrong relaxes at his home in Austin, Texas, with his Seven Tour de France Jerseys

Lance Armstrong with his Seven Tour de France Jerseys

If so, this would be a major about-face for Armstrong, who for years has actively and vociferously denied charges of using performance-enhancing drugs. He has even gone so far as to aggressively pursue both defensive and offensive legal action against individuals, publications, and organizations that have publicly charged him with doping.

However, the tide began turning against him when in June 2012 the United States Anti-Doping Agency (USADA) formally accused Armstrong of doping. In August 2012 USADA released a damning 202 page report providing extensive eyewitness and documentary evidence of Armstrong’s doping. As a result of the charges and the supporting evidence, Armstrong was stripped of his seven Tour de France titles, and given a lifetime ban from participating in cycling competitions or any other sport over which USADA has jurisdiction.

Armstrong predictably denied all charges, but opted not to appeal the decision. From then until now, he has steadfastly maintained his innocence.

For more on Lance Armstrong’s struggle against the world, please click here to read on.

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Real Marriage vs. Legal Marriage

Bob and Norma Clark celebrate their wedding 48 years later

Bob and Norma Clark

Bob and Norma Clark were married on August 29, 1964.

Or were they?

Yes, they had a beautiful wedding in a church, complete with all the trimmings.

But no, their marriage never got recorded with the County Clerk in San Mateo County, California, where their wedding took place.

However, they didn’t discover that until forty-eight years later. It turns out that they had never been legally married.

So were they married or not?

That depends on your definition of marriage.

For more on real marriage vs. legal marriage, please click here to read on.

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Posted in Current Events, Sex Marriage Relationships
Lee & Annette Woofenden

Lee & Annette Woofenden

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